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Paula Ciocirlau

Paula Ciocirlau

United Kingdom

Compassionate counsellor for sleep and life stresses

  • 8 years' experience
  • English, Romanian
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Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom · 387673
Based in
United Kingdom
  • Person-centred support
  • Solution-focused steps
  • Speaks English Romanian

About Paula

Paula Ciocirlau is a counsellor who helps people dealing with stress, sleep difficulties and other life challenges. She meets clients with warmth and straightforward support. Sessions focus on practical steps people can use day to day.

Paula works collaboratively, listening first and then helping clients set clear goals. She uses a person-centred way of working that keeps the client's priorities in view. She also draws on solution-focused ideas to find small changes that make a difference.

Her practice grew from studies begun in 2016 in Vienna, Austria, and from working with people from many cultures. That background feeds into an approach that pays attention to personal history and different life experiences. Paula aims to be approachable and down to earth in sessions.

Clients can expect conversations that balance exploring feelings with trying practical tools. Topics she supports include anxiety, depression, relationship and parenting concerns, grief, addiction, eating and sleep problems, and managing major life changes. She is also experienced with issues such as attachment, caregiving stress and neurodiversity.

Paula is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. She offers work in English and Romanian and is open to working with people internationally. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to availability.

How Paula’s approaches translate to online work

Paula uses person-centred and solution-focused ways of working that adapt well to talking online. Person-centred work means the conversation is shaped around what matters most to the client, with the counsellor offering attentive listening and reflective responses to help people make sense of their feelings. Solution-focused work emphasises small, practical steps and short-term goals that clients can try between sessions to change daily routines and sleep habits.

She also draws on Internal Family Systems ideas to help people understand different parts of themselves and how those parts affect feelings and behaviour. That can be useful when addressing issues like anxiety, grief, self-esteem or sleep disruption. Finding the right mix of these approaches is part of the work, and the therapist will collaborate with each client to decide what fits their needs and goals.

If you are considering online sessions, check the available session options before booking as the biography does not list specific formats. Many people find remote work helps fit therapy into busy lives, saves travel time and makes it easier to keep regular appointments. Others prefer a shorter check-in that fits a work break or settings that do not require being on camera; discuss preferences when scheduling so sessions match everyday routines.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesParenting issuesCareer difficultiesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Romanian

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Paula commonly help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and parenting concerns, sleep and eating issues, grief, addiction and other life changes.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Work is collaborative and down to earth, using person-centred listening alongside solution-focused techniques to find practical steps forward.

What is her background and experience?

Paula began her psychotherapy journey in 2016 in Vienna and has eight years of experience working with people from diverse cultural backgrounds.

What credentials and country is she based in?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and practises from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Romanian and she is able to work with international clients.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking as the biography does not specify formats.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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