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Nicola Murray

Nicola Murray

United Kingdom

Practical, relationship‑aware counsellor for anxious adults

  • 6 years' experience
  • English
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Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom · 392558
Based in
United Kingdom
  • Focus on sleep and rest
  • Practical CBT skills
  • Relationship work and intimacy

About Nicola

Nicola Murray is a counsellor with six years' experience helping people who feel overwhelmed by stress, anxiety and life changes. She works with adults who are struggling with sleep, relationships, low mood and messy life moments. Nicola aims to give clear steps people can try between sessions so they feel less stuck and more able to manage day to day.

She trained initially in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and holds BACP registration with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. Nicola mixes practical techniques with open conversation so clients can test what helps them. Sessions tend to focus on small, workable changes rather than long lists of theory.

Nicola pays close attention to attachment and relationship patterns. That means she looks at how early experiences affect trust, boundaries and the way people relate now. She also supports people dealing with intimacy concerns, anger, ADHD, obsessive behaviours and the fallout of past trauma.

When couples come for relationship work she concentrates on communication skills, emotional regulation and step‑by‑step repair. Nicola uses elements of the Gottman Method alongside other approaches to guide conversations and rebuild connection where possible.

People describe practical, collaborative sessions that aim for steady progress. Nicola offers therapy in English and is based in the United Kingdom, and she accepts international clients for remote work. To start, readers follow the site process to be matched and schedule sessions according to availability.

Therapeutic approaches and online working

Nicola uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Attachment‑Based Therapy as core parts of her practice. CBT looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and behaviours and offers practical exercises to shift unhelpful patterns; it can help with anxiety, low mood and sleep problems. Attachment‑Based Therapy examines how early relationship experiences shape current ways of relating and can be useful for intimacy, trust and recurring conflict.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Nicola will talk with each person about their goals, try different techniques in session and together decide what suits best. The aim is to find methods that fit a person's life and lead to manageable change rather than a one‑size‑fits‑all plan.

If you are considering online sessions, check the site to confirm which formats Nicola currently offers before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy around daily life, cut travel time and allow shorter, focused check‑ins when needed. Registered therapists can adapt CBT exercises and attachment work to remote settings, and Nicola will discuss how to shape sessions to suit your needs.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesADHD

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Nicola work with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, low mood and sleep problems along with relationship and intimacy concerns. Other areas include ADHD, trauma, grief, addictions and self‑esteem.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Nicola blends practical techniques with open, collaborative conversation. Sessions focus on small steps clients can try between meetings and reviewing what helps.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has six years' experience working with adults on a range of concerns including relationship patterns, anger, ADHD and obsessive behaviours.

What professional credentials and location apply?

Nicola is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages and international clients are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and Nicola accepts international clients for remote work.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking so you know which formats are offered for your circumstances.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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