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Benedicta Okoli

Benedicta Okoli

United Kingdom

Experienced counsellor focused on rest and relationships

  • 9 years' experience
  • English, Igbo
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Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom · 403083
Based in
United Kingdom
  • Practical steps
  • Warm supportive style
  • English and Igbo

About Benedicta

Benedicta Okoli is a counsellor with nine years of professional experience based in the United Kingdom. She describes herself as an individual and couple psychotherapist and a relationship and life coach. Benedicta works with people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties and a wide range of life challenges, including concerns about sleep and rest.

She offers a calm, respectful approach and aims to tailor conversations to each person’s needs. Sessions focus on practical steps and clearer thinking. Benedicta uses clients' goals to shape what happens in session rather than following a fixed plan.

Her background combines talking therapies with coaching skills that address relationships and life transitions. That means she often helps people untangle patterns from the past, manage current pressures, and build day-to-day routines that support wellbeing. She also works with people affected by trauma, abuse, bereavement and issues around identity and sexuality.

Benedicta draws on several evidence-informed approaches, choosing methods that fit each person. She uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Attachment-based work, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy and client-centred practice when these match a client’s needs.

Sessions are offered in English and Igbo, and she accepts international clients. To begin, a short matching questionnaire is completed and sessions are scheduled according to therapist availability and the site’s subscription model.

Her style is warm and straightforward. Benedicta aims to make starting therapy less intimidating and to help people find realistic steps toward better rest, healthier relationships and more manageable day-to-day life.

How therapeutic approaches work online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose actions that match their values. It is often used for anxiety, stress and problems that affect daily routines like sleep. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and behaviours and teaches practical strategies to change routines and reactions. It is commonly used for anxiety, depression and sleep difficulties. Attachment-Based Therapy examines early relationship patterns and how they shape current relationships and emotional responses; it can be helpful where trust, intimacy or family patterns affect rest and wellbeing.

Finding the right approach is usually part of the work together. The therapist will talk with the client about their goals, worries and preferences, and then suggest methods that suit those needs. This is a collaborative process and adjustments are made as the work progresses.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so please confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins between face-to-face meetings. They also let people choose arrangements that suit their day-to-day routines, for example quieter surroundings or a session that does not require video. Registered or accredited professionals often use online work to reach international clients, and Benedicta accepts clients from outside the UK; check her available formats when you book.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseSelf esteem

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

9+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Igbo

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues does Benedicta help with?

She works with a wide range of concerns including anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, grief, sleep and rest problems, self-esteem and career challenges.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is warm, respectful and practical. She tailors conversations to each person and focuses on achievable steps and clearer thinking.

What is her professional background?

She has nine years of experience as a psychotherapist and relationship and life coach working with individuals, couples and groups.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is listed with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and works from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Igbo.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She accepts international clients; confirm any region-specific details during booking.

How are costs and payments handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

What do I need to do to start sessions?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist’s availability.

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